Respected Abroad, Bullied at Home Says Sen. Remi Tinubu

Nigeria’s First Lady, Senator Oluremi Tinubu, has expressed concern over what she described as the stark contrast between the respect Nigerian leaders receive internationally and the hostility they often face at home. According to her, many leaders are honoured and valued on the global stage but are routinely criticised, abused and undervalued by citizens within the country due to hate-driven narratives and political manipulation.

Mrs Tinubu made the remarks in a post shared on her official Facebook page on Friday, following her recent recognition by United States President Donald Trump at the National Prayer Breakfast held in Washington, DC. The annual event was attended by members of the US Congress, religious leaders and international dignitaries from across the world.

During his address, President Trump publicly acknowledged the presence of the Nigerian First Lady, describing her as a “very respected woman.” He also highlighted her dual role as Nigeria’s First Lady and an ordained pastor of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), one of the largest Pentecostal churches in the country, drawing applause from participants at the event.

Reacting to the moment, Mrs Tinubu said the recognition further reinforced her belief that Nigerian leaders are often better appreciated abroad than by their own people. She lamented what she described as a growing culture of disrespect and misinformation at home, which, she said, is fuelled by divisive political narratives rather than constructive criticism.

The First Lady called for a shift in attitude among Nigerians, urging citizens to engage leaders with fairness, truth and national interest in mind. She stressed that while accountability is essential in a democracy, constant vilification and abuse undermine unity and the country’s global image, noting that respect for leadership ultimately reflects respect for the nation itself.